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You’ve hung out in bars, you’ve answered the personals, you’ve maxed out the plastic trolling online dating sites, and you still haven’t met the right person. Or, you’ve ended up dating a series of potential perfect matches, only to be disappointed.
Why are your friends able to hook up, but you’re always left high and dry? Have all the good single people slid off the Earth?

Listen, if you continually date people who suddenly stop calling, who turn out to have some type of social tic like complaining incessantly or being mean to waiters, who never stop talking about themselves, who are incapable of telling the truth, you have a problem. And the problem is you.

Yes, you.

If you want to attract a good, fun, and genuine person who will love you and make you happy, then you must love yourself and make yourself happy first. If you usually end up dating losers, you are clearly short in the self-love department. You see, according to the Law of Attraction, like attracts like. So if you don’t love yourself adequately, you will attract people who hurt or disappoint you. Always.

Think this is a bunch of hooey, do you? Well, give it a chance and your life will change. I want you to go to the bathroom right now, go to the mirror and look yourself in the eye, and say, “I approve of myself.” Say, “I love myself unconditionally.”

Oooh, doesn’t that feel weird? Doesn’t it feel creepy?

Of course it does. Most of us haven’t been raised to love and approve of ourselves. We have no problem looking in the mirror and telling ourselves that we’re hopelessly bald or that our stomachs jiggle. Self-hatred is perfectly acceptable. Looking in the mirror and saying, “I approve of myself, and I love myself unconditionally” is weird. And scary.

But I want you to keep it up. I want you to get behind the wheel of your car tomorrow, and instead of speed dialing some chum while you’re flying down the parkway, say “I approve of myself” out loud again and again and again. Say it one thousand times. Say it at home while you’re doing the laundry. Say it when you’re cooking dinner (or peeling it out of a paper bag).

After a couple of weeks, your subconscious will accept the fact that you truly love and approve of yourself. And guess what? You will attract better friends, better jobs, better circumstances, and yes, much better dates. Your posture will improve, too.

You will find that you attract people who are more reliable and less neurotic. “Good” single people will seem to come out of the woodwork. You will not have to work so hard to get a second date or to maintain a relationship. People will want to be with you because you feel good about yourself.

Self-love attracts love like a magnet. Go for it.

Terry Hernon MacDonald is the author of “How to Attract and Marry the Man of Your Dreams.” Visit her website at http://www.marrysmart.com .

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This week I want to talk about falling in love with single women too fast and too soon.

Because of our raging hormones and thinking as if our brain is between our legs, men tend to fall in love (or lust) at first site. Even after a first date that went really well you may think that you are in love. I can assure you that it is really not love. It’s just infatuation. Love takes time to develop. It just doesn’t happen overnight.

And what’s frustrating about your tendency of falling in love too fast is that women usually don’t react the same way. They are a lot more cautious and like to take their time and get to know someone before they develop strong feelings toward a guy.

So, let me give you some valuable advice. Whatever you do, don’t tell a woman you love them on your first or second date. This will only scare her away. Trust me on this one!

Another tip is to not talk about seeing her all the time until you feel that she feels the same way mutually. Take things slow! Don’t be a clinger and smoother her either. Don’t make her feel like your whole world revolves around her. Play a little hard to get and make yourself a challenge for her.

This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles
Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to
successfully meet, date, attract, and become intimate with
women, please visit his website at: http://www.getgirls.com.

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Has this ever happened to you? You’re at a bar or nightclub
and you see this lovely lady across the way that you’re
attracted to and dying to meet.

You keep watching her for a long time, waiting for the right
time and opportunity to approach her and meet her. You keep
pondering and stalling. This can go on even after an hour of
trying to get up your nerve to approach her. So, you keep procrastinating.

Well, guess what happens when you hesitate? I’m sure you’ve
heard of the expression, “You snooze, you lose!” What will
happen is before you know it she will get up and leave or even
worse, some other guy makes a move on her and beats you to the
punch.

You must never, never wait for the perfect opportunity to meet
single women you are attracted to and want to meet. You must
approach her right then and there without hesitation. Just
do it! Do it now! The more time you take to ponder your
decision as to when you should make your move, the more time
you will have to talk yourself out of it.

If you become a procrastinator when it comes to meeting and
approaching women, you will see one opportunity after another
lost to meet all those hot & sexy women you desire.

One of the biggest reasons I was always successful with women
was because of my “take action attitude.” When I saw a woman
I’d like to meet I never hesitated. I never gave myself time
to think about whether I should approach her or not. I just
took action and did it. I had a “do it now” mentality.

With practice, you too can develop this mentality. When you
do, everything will come naturally. You will approach women immediately without hesitation. With this “can do” mentality
you will come across as confident in the eyes of women that
you approach. You know what you want and go after it. Trust
me guys, women just love confident men. Always remember this
fact and conduct yourself accordingly, to take advantage of
this girl-getting personality trait.

This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles
Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to
successfully meet, date, attract, and become intimate with
women, please visit his website at: http://www.getgirls.com -
This article is copyright (c) 2005 by Don Diebel and may be
reprinted in it’s entirety as long as his website, byline,
and copyright statement is included.

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