Don’t use the words, I WISH - As an example, do you ever say these things to yourself:
- I wish I had a girlfriend
- I wish I had somebody to love
- I wish I could find someone to date
The words I WISH can be very dangerous to you succeeding with single women because subconsciously you are saying to yourself, “I can’t” or “I won’t be able to do it” and this can set you up for failure.
Instead say to yourself:
- I will have a girlfriend
- I will have somebody to love
- I will find someone to date
The absolutely worst words you can say to yourself is, “I’ll try.” When you say this to yourself it’s just an excuse for failure. And this will program your subconscious mind to accept that you will fail. Here are examples of things you say to yourself that you must totally eliminate from your thinking:
- I’ll try to meet more women
- I’ll try to take action when I see a woman I’d like to date
- I’ll try to overcome my shyness with women
Instead of saying, “I’ll try” just say, “I’ll do it” or “I can.” And never, never tell yourself, “I can’t.”
This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles
Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to
successfully meet, date, attract, and become intimate with
women, please visit his website at: http://www.getgirls.com.
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If you really want to a great impression on the women you take out for a date, here are some great ideas:
- AMUSEMENT PARKS - This really makes for a fun date, especially if you both enjoy thrill-seeking rides such as roller coasters, etc. Also, don’t forget to try and win her a teddy bear or other keepsake.
- BALLOON RIDES - I am referring to hot-air balloon rides. This is a breath-taking experience you both will never forget. It’s very romantic and some rides even come with champagne.
- BOAT RENTAL - This makes for a unique experience and it’s so relaxing and enjoyable. You can charter a boat with captain and crew or rent a powerboat for skiing, fishing, or just for cruising.
- CAMPING - What a great way to enjoy the great outdoors! Things really get cozy and romantic sitting in front of an open fire! This is sure to melt her heart and make her want to share your sleeping bag.
- CARRIAGE RIDES - This is one of the most ultimate romantic experiences. Just you and your lover or date in a horse-drawn carriage enjoying the scenery.
- DINNER AT YOUR PLACE - One of my favorite things to do is to invite a woman over for a candlelight steak dinner and champagne. I do all the cooking and wait on my date hand and foot. I really make my date feel special. So, if you really want to make someone feel special and have a romantic evening, do this for a very special date.
- DINNER THEATRE - There’s nothing like good entertainment while you’re eating. Your date will really be impressed and this is one of my top choices to take a date to.
- GO-CARTS - These are a lot of fun for adults too. Why not challenge your date to a race around the track.
- HAY RIDES - Have you ever been on a hayride? It’s a lot of fun and something very different to do.
- HELICOPTER RIDES - This was one of the most exciting dates I ever went on. My date and I took a helicopter tour of downtown San Diego and the Shoreline. I was especially fascinated flying over the skyscrapers and looking down on them. This will be an expensive date, because to charter a helicopter can cost you up to $500 an hour. If you can afford it, it’s worth the money just for the experience.
- HORSE RACES OR DOG RACES - Here’s another fun activity you can both share and make some money too, if you are lucky.
- ICE SKATING - Don’t know how to skate? No problem, It’s a lot of fun just learning. Sure, you’re going to take a few spills on the ice. It’s all part of the fun! This is great place to go on a date even if you don’t know how to ice skate. You can always take lessons, too.
- JET SKIS - This is like riding a motorcycle on the water and your date can ride on the back. Take my word for it, this is the ultimate joy ride while having some great fun on the water. You can rent them for about $20 for a half-hour.
- KITE FLYING - Stop by any toy store and pick up a kite and go on a kite date. Head for your local park, beach, or any wide-open space. Kites are not just for kids. It’s a fun experience for all ages and it’s kind of romantic. So, get your date and go fly a kite.
- LIMOUSINE DATE - When you want to tell someone they’re special, what better way to do it than with the unexpected. Sending flowers is nice, but sending flowers with a limousine is unforgettable. This is a great way to let dancers know they are real special to you.
- LIVE MUSIC - This will put you and your date in a good mood, especially if the band is good. Check out your area for places that offer live music. Take her to Rock Concerts too.
- MOONLIGHT STROLLS - When there’s a full moon and clear skies, head for any lake or seashore. It’s so romantic to take your shoes off and wade along the shore with the full moon gleaming on the water.
This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles
Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to
successfully meet, date, attract, and become intimate with
women, please visit his website at: http://www.getgirls.com.
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If Valentines Day were a contact sport, the flower companies would be in big trouble. That’s because men would start planning for Valentines Day some time in early January, and they’d almost certainly venture beyond the usual flowers and candy when choosing Valentines Day gifts.
The secret is you don’t have to spend a ton of money on Valentines Day gifts to please her. You just have to show you put some time and thought into choosing something special.
Here’s what married women wish the men in their lives knew about choosing Valentines Day gifts:
- You can never go wrong with jewelry. And while some women will be satisfied with mall store jewelry, just about all women will be impressed by a gift from Tiffany. It could be an inexpensive silver keychain or a pair of diamond earrings. It doesn’t matter. If it comes in that signature blue box, she’s almost guaranteed to love it.
Or better yet, give her the whole store. Buy her shares of Tiffany stock, and she can legitimately say she owns the place.
- What you think is sappy, she might think is really sweet. Think custom poems, custom fortune cookies or custom M&Ms with your own special message on them. It may seem silly to you, but she’ll think it’s thoughtful and creative.
Personal Creations (personalcreations.com) and 1-800-Flowers.com both offer giant custom fortune cookies.
- If you’re giving candy, make it chocolate, and make it the good stuff. New York-based Jacques Torres not only makes good-quality chocolate; it’s popular among the uber-trendy set, too.
- If you want to show her how much you value your memories together, give her a memory book (similar to a baby book) of the year you first met. Nostalgia Publishing does custom-printed books that detail all the current events — news, sports, movies, popular songs and more –that happened during the year you met.
You can even customize the book with your names, the date you met, a special message and a poem. ($45 at whenwefirstmet.com).
Stephanie Gallagher, a.k.a, ‘The Shopping Mom,’ has written 4 books. For more Valentines Day gift ideas, including where to buy framed shares of Tiffany stock for less than $150, see her web site,
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