When Meeting Women Never Ask If They Have a Boyfriend
Men being the logical creatures that we are tend to shoot ourselves in the foot when it comes to women.
A perfect example of this is when a man asks a woman if she has a boyfriend or is in a relationship.
Now, for men this seem to be a both a necessary and respectful questions.
In our minds if she was our girl we would want other men to show the same amount of respect and if upon discovering her having a boyfriend would back off and chase after some other women.
However, what a woman hears when you ask her that is, I like you a lot and I want you to be my girlfriend even though I know next to nothing about you.
In other words she will think you are a very needy guy.
Based on her interpretation of your words she is almost left with no choice except to say that she has a boyfriend unless she has a thing for needy guys, which is highly unlikely.
Knowing what I know about women your best option is going to be to simply not enquire about her relationship status at all.
Yet, knowing what I know about men there are many of you who have a rule about not talking to another man’s woman.
For you your best option is going to be to ask her if she if she is single.
When you ask a woman if she is single in her mind she hears that you like her and want to get to know her in the way that she wants (even if you don’t).
It’s important that you understand when you ask a woman if she has a boyfriend or if she is single, she will automatically assume that you like her.
If she really is attracted to you then that is great, either way, but a girl really being attracted to you upon the first meeting depending on your skill is slim.
If, however, she is only mildly interested, she will only respond to, are you single questions and the do you have a boyfriend guy is out the door.
Now, the best option works because you never reveal that you like her since you don’t ask either question, but, you have your rules to follow and that to some is a good thing.
Teddy Shabba is a Dating Coach for Men and creator of Dating Advice and Tips for Men which provides an abundance of information for men on dating and more. If you would like more information on how to attract, seduce and meet women sign up for the Teddy Shabba Dating Advice Newsletter for Men today.